I see what happens. One guy who is comfortable with hugging (and no doubt his sexuality) pulls in the other after a brief handshake. If the other guy isn't comfortable he tenses up and puts his hands up as if to say "I'm not the homo here." Other guys will go in for a quick semi-hug which is more of a shoulder knock and a slap on the back. I wonder if they are scared that when they hug, the other guy will feel his package against his leg and get the wrong idea, and the next moment, he'll find himself with his pants around his ankles and a cock up his ass? Ridiculous I know, but I wonder if that's what's going through their mind? Will I look gay if I hug another man? Get over yourselves. Really.
We girls usually don't have a problem. We'll hug anyone unless they smell like shit. Heck, I'll even hug my enemy. Of course once I have her in my lock I'll put her into a full nelson and have my homegirls kick her in the clit...but that's another issue.
So can men really hug without thinking they are gay, or having others think they are gay?
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I think a lot of men are homophobic in general...like it's contagious or something.
Women are just more relaxed about that sort of thing.
"Kick her in the clit" Good one....but for some reason that kind of turned me on:)
guys are trained to be homophobic. we're taught that anything feminin is weak and that we can't be weak. ergo, we avoid it.
also, when we hug girls there's is a bit of squishing that we "enjoy" more than you think. so doing that with a guy is just odd.
what? did you think we just hugged girls cause we like you?
Mackey - it must be contagious. I always hear how "beautiful" it is to see 2 women together..but it's just nasty for 2 men to hook up..lol
Turned on eh? Thinking of the other weekend? hehe
Exile - I think ur right. Boys are like dogs...you spend all this time training them (right from childhood I guess). Hmmm I guess there is more squiching with some gals eh?
Come on girls. It's not about being Gay or feeling Gay or being homophobic. To be homophobic means to be scared of gay people. Well, I have a few gay friends and I don't like hugging other men.
Men are territorial by nature. And we are brought up with the hardwiring in our brains by Nature herself to not be emotional. We don't hug because we don't like it. And that's all it is! There's something deep down in our manly brains that you women will never understand that makes us dislike hugging other men.
I don't understand why you women seem to WANT men to hug. Why is it on your agenda (most of you) to see a man hug another man? Why is it so important to you?
Jas...
I have to disagree. I think men don't like to hug, probably for the same reason I (as a female) don't like to hug. To me it's an envasion of my personal space. I hug very few people and I know I'm not homophobic, cause one of the few people I do hug is my gay sister!
Why assume a man is a homophobe cause he doesn't want to hug another man?
I think the shoulder knock pat on the back thing is sexy.
My gawd did I just say that?
Binsk is obviously in need of some loving.
Two things.
One, I have male friends who when they hug, count out three pats on the back and then they break. It's kind of cute.
Two, have you ever been kicked in the clit? SUCKS!
Sheri - Not that I can remember, but I once quiffed so bad it hurt. I called it a clit-ripper.
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